Gynaecologist Career Guide and Counseling

Question: What should i expect at my first gynaecologist appointment? I have an irregular period. I've had a blood test, an ultra sound, and a pap test. Everything is normal. I've been referred to a gynaecologist because my Dr suspects i have a hormonal problem. I'm a little nervous. What should i expect at my first appointment?

Answer: You will usually have blood work done, a pap test, you might be weighed, lots of questions asked, usually a breast exam is done too, also an inside check might be done to feel your uterus and stuff too, also alot of poking and proding will be done from the outside also, talking about your periods,

Question: What to expect on my first gynaecologist appointment? I am going for my first gynaecologist appointment tonight as i have had weird discharge and smell from my vagina. what will i expect when i go there? also do i trim my pubic hair or leave it all natural? what do you all do?

Answer: You may be worried about your first pelvic exam. It's very normal to be anxious about something when you don't know what to expect. Hopefully after reading this, you will be reassured that it is simple, isn't painful and the actual pelvic exam takes only about 5 minutes. It is also normal to feel embarrassed or uneasy about your first exam, I still feel embarrassed with mine and I've had may many pelvic examinations over the past 10 years due to female related problems I'm experiencing. However, if you know what to expect, it may help you relax. I'm sure your gyno understands how you feel and will be sensitive and gentle, and answer any questions you may have. There are other important reasons to have a pelvic exam. These may include: - Unexplained pain in your lower belly or around the pelvic area, where your vagina is; - Vaginal discharge or wetness on your underwear that causes itching, burning or smells bad; - No menstrual periods by age 15 or 16; - Vaginal bleeding that lasts more than 10 days; - Missed periods; especially if you are having sex; - Menstrual cramps so bad that you miss school or work. During your first check up your gyno will ask you questions about: - Your general health, allergies and medications you are taking; - Your menstrual period, such as how old you were when you first got it, how long it lasts, how often it comes, how much you bleed , the first day that your last period started, if you have cramps; and at what age your breasts started to develop. - Whether you have ever had sex or have been sexually abused. - If you have vaginal itchiness or an unusual discharge or odor from your vagina. If you find it comforting your partner, a friend or if you are still young, your Mum can go with you for support, bear in mind that they don't have to be present in the room when you are having the pelvic examination done. After you have given your medical history, been weighed and had your blood pressure checked, you will be asked to put on a gown. You will need to remove your clothes including your underwear and bra. A breast exam is often done as a routine part of this check-up. Your gyno will explain the steps to the exam and ask you to lie down on the exam table. You will be given a sheet to put over your stomach and legs. You will then be asked to move down to the end of the table and place your feet in stirrups (these are holders for your feet). With your knees bent, you will be asked to let your knees fall to each side allowing your legs to spread apart. This is usually the part when most women feel embarrassed. This feeling is normal too. Just remember that although this is your first exam, this is routine for your gyno and their only concern is for your health. There are 3 parts to this exam. Sometimes not all parts of the pelvic exam are necessary. Ask your gyno which part or parts will be done for your examination. Your gyno will first look at the area outside of your vagina, (clitoris, labia, vaginal opening, and rectum). Now some information about the papsmear. The speculum is an instrument made of metal or plastic. Your gyno will place the speculum into your vagina. After it is inserted, it will be gently opened so that your gyno can see your vagina and your cervix (the opening to your uterus). After checking your vagina and cervix, your gyno may take a thin plastic stick and a special tiny brush or a small "broom" and gently wipe away some of the cells from your cervix. This is a pap smear, which detects early changes of the cervix before they become cancer. Most girls have normal pap smears. If you are having vaginal discharge, your gyno will take another sample to check for a possible yeast infection and other causes of discharge. If you are having sex, your gyno will take another sample from the cervix to check for sexually transmitted diseases. When all of these samples have been taken, your doctor will close the speculum and gently take it out. When the exam is over, your gyno will answer any questions you have and tell you when to make your next appointment. He/she will also talk to you about any medications you may need and tell you when and how you will get the results of the exam. I hope this information helps you out. Best of luck and remember to try to relax. If at any time during your examination, you feel uncomfortable or anything causes pain, you have the right to stop your gyno and let him/her know. Good luck. :)

Question: when should i start seeing a gynaecologist? im 21 and i have been having sex with my bf of 3 years since 18. should i see a gynaecologist now?

Answer: Yes, you should start seeing a gynecologist now. Also, your primary care physician can take care of doing annual exams and pap smears if they are comfortable with it and if you prefer because of comfort level.

Question: Do you need a referal to see a gynaecologist? My husband (28yrs old) and I (24yrs old) have been trying to concieve however havent been able to so far (4 months) My periods were due but havent come (1 1/2 week late) I took a preg test and 2 blood test all negative. My doctor isn't much help he speaks very little english and doesn't answer my questions. I would like to see a gynaecologist. Do I need a referal?

Answer: In the UK yes you do need a referral. However, you haven't been trying that long. Four months is a relatively short time especially taking into account your ages. I'd been trying for 7 months before I was referred, appointment will take time coming through, although I was 32 yrs and didn't have periods every month more like every 3 months. Try reading a book called "Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Wheslcer. This will teach you how to monitor your cycle through temp and cervical mucus. Its excellent, you will then be able to properly time your intercourse.

Question: Please suggest me a good hospital and Gynaecologist in and around BTM & Jayanagar? Though I got the answer for a Hospital in Koramangla I'm looking for more answers. Please suggest me a good gynaecologist and Hospital in and around BTM Layout.

Answer: Depend on where you living in? The hospital and Gynecologist should be nearby you. Or you can look up other place.

Question: Why do women in the UK not have regular gynaecologist appointments like American women do? In my experience it is very uncommon, or am I just not in the know?

Answer: We can see a gynaecologist if and when there is a need. For 'well women' checks and smear tests we see our practice nurse or a nurse at the family planning clinics...it doesn't take a gynaecologist to perform regular checks or to prescribe birth control.

Question: Is there a gynaecologist on here who i can talk to? I asked my doctor about this problem but she was no help AT ALL and i almost thought she didn't approve of people having babies! I have a uterine prolapse (still not sure exactly what type it is) but since i have had it my periods have been heavy at first, then spotting for DAYS afterwards. I had a smear test yesterday and i am spotting again. We have been trying for a baby but no luck as yet. As i fell pregnant instantly with my son i was wondering if my problem could prevent me from getting pregnant? As i said before, my doctor was NO help and just said to do pelvic floor exercises, lose weight and keep trying for a baby....... She would not refer me to a gynaecologist or the physiotherapist and was reluctant to answer any more of my questions! Any suggestions/ideas/help of the professional nature would be greatly appreciated! The trouble is she is the only female doctor at the practice. I am thinking of going back to my other doctor but he is young and handsome and i feel funny talking to him about ladies problems!!

Answer: Unfortunately you will find that doctors are like this, because they have to cover a wide range of subjects and they only have so long to deal with you specifically they can be very limited on what they can do, let alone what they are willing to do. Doctors are largely ignorant about female anatomy, my own doctor was also unwilling to help with my reproductive health, in fact she openly abused me for my birth control choices – I used FAM, highly effective as birth control, helps take care of vaginal health and fantastic if trying to conceive because as well as telling you when to have sex to achieve pregnancy, aiding in sex selection, and telling you when you are pregnant before a pregnancy test can, it also tells you exactly why you cannot get pregnant by telling you where things are going wrong – my doctor had no idea what FAM was, thinking it was the same as the rhythm method and called me a 'silly little girl who was going to get herself pregnant' after which she point blank refused to treat me. Rant over, point is many doctors are ignorant but do not like to admit it. I would highly recommend using Fertility Awareness Method yourself if trying for a child, unfortunately I am guessing that your doctor has not told you to do this already, when she really should have – get yourself the book 'Taking Charge of Your Fertility: The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control, Pregnancy Achievement and Reproductive Wealth' by Toni Weschler – I guarantee you that it will help you get pregnant. Exercises will help you, but in the long run you would be better off looking for another doctor, don't expect miracles from doctors but do expect to find a doctor who will be more willing to give you the help you need.

Question: what do they do in a gynaecologist internal exam? i'm just about to go to the gynaecologist for the first time and i wanted to know what they will do to my vagina. my friends say they put a load of metal things up there is this true? and does it hurt? also can a gynaecologist be a man? xxxx

Answer: You may be worried about your first pelvic exam. It's very normal to be anxious about something when you don't know what to expect. Hopefully after reading this, you will be reassured that it is simple, isn't painful and takes only about 5 minutes. It is also normal to feel embarrassed or uneasy about your first exam, I still feel embarrassed with mine and I've had may many pelvic examinations over the past 9 years due to female related problems I'm experiencing. I actually just went to see my gyno about 6 weeks ago for a follow up appointment after being diagnosed with endometriosis a few months ago and it really is a simple, painless examination that literally only takes a couple of minutes. However, if you know what to expect, it may help you relax. I'm sure your gyno understands how you feel and will be sensitive and gentle, and answer any questions you have. There are other important reasons to have a pelvic exam. These may include: - Unexplained pain in your lower belly or around the pelvic area, where your vagina is; - Vaginal discharge or wetness on your underwear that causes itching, burning or smells bad; - No menstrual periods by age 15 or 16; - Vaginal bleeding that lasts more than 10 days; - Missed periods; especially if you are having sex; - A history of ovarian cysts (like you mentioned); - Menstrual cramps so bad that you miss school or work. During your first check up your gyno will ask you questions about: - Your general health, allergies and medications you are taking; - Your menstrual period, such as how old you were when you first got it, how long it lasts, how often it comes, how much you bleed , the first day that your last period started, if you have cramps; and at what age your breasts started to develop. - Whether you have ever had sex or have been sexually abused. - If you have vaginal itchiness or an unusual discharge or odor from your vagina. If you are under 18 and find it comforting a friend or your Mum can go with you. If your gyno is a male, then you have the right to ask for a nurse to be in the room while he does the examination, however these days (when you have a male gynaecologist), there will be a nurse present during the examination. After you have given your medical history, been weighed and had your blood pressure checked, you will be asked to put on a gown. You will need to remove your clothes including your underwear and bra. A breast exam is often done as a routine part of this check-up. Your gyno will explain the steps to the exam and ask you to lie down on the exam table. You will be given a sheet to put over your stomach and legs. You will then be asked to move down to the end of the table and place your feet in stirrups (these are holders for your feet). With your knees bent, you will be asked to let your knees fall to each side allowing your legs to spread apart. This is usually the part when most women feel embarrassed. This feeling is normal too. Just remember that although this is your first exam, this is routine for your gyno and their only concern is for your health. There are 3 parts to this exam. Sometimes not all parts of the pelvic exam are necessary. Ask your gyno which part or parts will be done for your examination. Your gyno will first look at the area outside of your vagina, (clitoris, labia, vaginal opening, and rectum). Now some information about the papsmear. The speculum is an instrument made of metal or plastic. Your gyno will place the speculum into your vagina. After it is inserted, it will be gently opened so that your gyno can see your vagina and your cervix (the opening to your uterus). After checking your vagina and cervix, your gyno may take a thin plastic stick and a special tiny brush or a small "broom" and gently wipe away some of the cells from your cervix. This is a pap smear, which detects early changes of the cervix before they become cancer. Most girls have normal pap smears. If you are having vaginal discharge, your gyno will take another sample to check for yeast and other causes of discharge. If you are having sex, your gyno will take another sample from the cervix to check for sexually transmitted diseases. When all of these samples have been taken, your doctor will close the speculum and gently take it out. When the exam is over, your gyno will answer any questions you have and tell you when to make your next appointment. He/she will also talk to you about any medications you may need and tell you when and how you will get the results of the exam. Yes a gynecologist can be a man Good luck

Question: What can I expect from my first Gynaecologist Appointment? I'm a little nervouse as I have my first appointment with a gynecologist tomorrow and i'm not sure what to expect. I suffer from PCOS and it has taken for me to have a missed miscarriage for my GP to refer me to a gynecologist! Basically I suffered the miscarriage about 1 month ago and wanted to know what they will do on my first appointment, will they prescribe any medication or just run tests?? I'm in the UK.

Answer: They will get your medical history and probably do blood tests. Then they will arrrange further tests like an ultrasound or a hsg to look at your tubes. Good luck

Question: In all,how many years should i spend in medical college in the U.S to become a gynaecologist? If i want to become a gynaecologist,how many years am i going to spend in medical college minus the years i would specialize in Gynaecology?In all,how many years would i take to specialize in Gynaecology?

Answer: As many years as you take to pass all the exams and do all the prac work, depending on what exemptions you may be granted based on previous experience.

Question: What do you hate more:visiting the gynaecologist or the dentist?(only for women,of course!)? I am scared when going to the dentist but the gynaecologist is a bit uncomfortable as well...

Answer: I've pondered this question many times. Dentist hurts more. Gyno is uncomfortable. & with the gyno, you have to wait for results, which can be stressful. But, still, dentist, hands down.

Question: Can anyone recommend a good gynaecologist in Bangalore, around the JP Nagar - Jayanagar Area? Can anyone recommend a good gynaecologist in Bangalore, around the JP Nagar - Jayanagar Area? Are any of the doctors in either Apollo Hospital or Wockhardt Hospital on Bannerghatta Road any good?

Answer: Dr.Prakash Kini is exellent gynaecologist in JPNagar,Jaynagar area.Very well experienced from MTP to caeserian section.Warm,afffectionate human being beside an exellent doctor.

Question: Is it allowed for a woman to be examined by a male gynaecologist? For medical reasons? or does it have to be a done by a female doctor? what if there was no female doctor?

Answer: In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful, In the situation where a Muslim female is in need of medical treatment, the endeavour should be that she is treated by a female medical doctor, preferably a Muslim. If a female practitioner is: a) Easily available, b) One is satisfied and content with her medical treatment, c) There is no other valid legal (shar'i) excuse for not resorting to her treatment, then in such a case, it would not be permissible to seek the medication of a male doctor, rather, the illness must be treated by a qualified female doctor. It is stated in al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, a renowned Hanafi Fiqh reference: "If a woman has a wound in a part of the body that is impermissible for a male to look at (m, meaning other than the face, hands & feet, for they are absolutely part of awra), it will be impermissible for her receive treatment from a male doctor, rather a female should be instructed to treat her. If a female expert is not available, neither is there a female who can be instructed to treat her… then in such a case it would be permitted for a male doctor to treat her, provided there is a genuine need. It will be necessary for her to cover other than the effected area, and he must lower his gaze as much as possible." (al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya, 5/330). However, if the need is only for consultation or the medication is related to a part of the body that is not part of Awra, then it would be permissible to seek the treatment of a male doctor, although the treatment of a female doctor will still be preferable. If the above-mentioned (3) points are not found, in that a medical female expert is not easily available, or if she is available, one is not content with her medication, or there is some other valid legal excuse, then in such a indispensable situation, it will be permissible to resort to the treatment of a male doctor, provided the male doctor only looks at (and handles) the effected area. The rest of the body of the female must remain covered. Imam al-Haskafi (Allah have mercy on him) states: "In the situation of a male doctor treating a female, he should only look at the effected area (m, whenever reasonably possible), for cases of need are restricted to the actual need. And it is preferable that the male doctor teaches and instructs a female in order to treat her, for looking (and treating) someone from the same gender is the lesser of two evils (m, i.e. when looking at parts of Awra)." Imam Ibn Abidin (Allah have mercy on him) explains in his Radd al-Muhtar that, if the treatment is related to the private parts, then only in extreme situations will it be permitted for her to seek treatment of a male doctor. He states: "If the treatment is on her private parts, then it is necessary that a female is instructed to treat her. If this is not possible and it is feared that the woman may perish or undergo unbearable pains, only then will it be permissible for a male to treat her." (See: Radd al-Muhtar ala al-Durr al-Mukhtar, 6/371). The same has been mentioned in other Hanafi Fiqh references. See: Ibn Nujaym, Bahr al-Ra'iq, 8/192, Qadhikhan in his Fatawa, 3/409 & Bada'i al-Sana'i, 5/124. Also, a Muslim doctor would be preferred over a non-Muslim for obvious reasons. However, if (once again) the three points are not met, then it would be permissible to seek the treatment of a non-Muslim doctor. Therefore the order in seeking medical treatment would be: a) Muslim female doctor b) Non-Muslim female doctor c) Muslim male doctor d) Non-Muslim male doctor And in moving from one stage to another, the above three points should be kept in mind. The preference of a non-Muslim female doctor over a Muslim male doctor is due to the fact that, looking at the awra of someone from the same sex (as mentioned in Durr al-Mukhtar) is lesser of an evil. Also, the covering of one's nakedness in front of a (non-Mahram) male has been given more importance than covering in front of a non-Muslim female. And Allah Knows Best Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari Darul Iftaa, Leicester, UK www.daruliftaa.org

Question: what shud be the salary of a specialist gynaecologist in a pvt hospital in saudi .? Does it depend entirely on the will & wish of the management or is it set by the govt .

Answer: The salary is not set by the Government. Your salary will depend on you Nationality, experience and the hospital itself. Just compare an offer with your current salary, living expenses from where you live with living expenses in KSA and then, keeping in mind that the salary is tax free make up your mind. Take care.

Question: What is the differance between a Obstetrician and a Gynaecologist?

Answer: Obstetrics= pregnancy Gynecology = womens medicine ie vagina, uterus and adenexa when non-gravid (non-prego)

Question: How far back does your gynaecologist go? I've been seeing mine now for almost fifteen years.

Answer: never been